How to Dress for the Oscars - by Charlize Theron

It's been over a week since the Oscars and people have been asking me why I didn't blog about the fashion from the night.  So I'm here to tell you why...  Charlize Theron.  I am very dismayed by the lack of glitz & glamour on the red carpet these days.  So many ladies lack sparkle in terms of jewelry or interesting up dos and I wasn't really blown away by anyone this year.  Except Charlize Theron.  Everything is perfection - the hair, the jewelry and the gown with major wow factor.  So I am singling her out this year as "How to Dress for the Oscars."  Everyone else, please take notes. 

Charlie Theron in Dior Haute Couture at 2016 Academy Awards

Crazy Winter Weather = You Gotta Have the Gear!

I moved back to NYC  after living in California for many years and during my first winter back, there were record low temperatures that I never experienced growing up here.  It was shocking, but life must go on and I realized something:  It’s not so bad if you have the gear.  But – you gotta have the gear!  This winter so far has presented us with a different season every day.  With this unpredictable weather, you must be prepared for anything – and your wardrobe must represent that too. 

Me in all my warmest gear!

A few tips on gearing up for the cold: 

• When it’s REALLY cold – like in the teens or single digits – the only way to stay truly warm is with down, shearling or fur.  There really is no substitute and even when they are 100% cashmere, cloth coats do not do the job.  (Sorry if you are a strict vegetarian or vegan).  But it’s great to have a smart cloth coat on hand for dress wear and “warmer” cold days.   
• Cold weather gear can be pricey but it doesn’t have to be. Heattech by Uniqlo is a great example of an affordable heat-retentive line that comes in every form from t-shirts to socks and leggings for both men & women.  Heattech items are mostly thin and great for layering.  
• The end of the season (as in right now) is a great time to get bargains on cold weather gear.  Even furriers are offering major deals in order to move their inventory.
• I said this in a previous post but it bears repeating.  It is essential to check the forecast every single day and plan your ensemble for the day accordingly.

Other suggestions to help brave the winter:

• Waterproof/insulated "weather" boots
• A good sturdy umbrella – like a golf umbrella or plastic “bubble” umbrella (because the wind can demolish a cheap fabric one)
• Water repellent jacket/coat
• Don't go out if you don't have to (one of the benefits of being self-employed!)

Although I am preaching how to dress for a polar vortex, I myself am over the winter already and looking forward to Spring as soon as possible.  Who's with me?

Break the Fashion Rules!

I was consulting a comedic actress last week and suggested she wear her hair longer because it makes her look younger.  She said she thought she had to have short hair in order to be funny.  I pointed out that actresses like Kathryn Hahn, Jennifer Coolidge, Melissa McCarthy and Kate McKinnon are all hilarious with long flowing hair.

I want to take this opportunity to dispel some other misconceptions about women & image.  There are so many “rules” and I am here to say poppycock to all of them.  I hate sweeping generalizations that don’t actually do anyone any good. 

The one & only Goldie Hawn

Some examples:

• No short skirts/bare arms after age 40
• Women over 50 must have short hair
• You should always match your shoes, belt and bag
• Red lipstick is only for evening
• Tall women shouldn’t wear heels

My clients are all unique and I consult each based upon her individual goals, occupations, personalities and bodies.  My motto is "whatever works."  If you are empowered by something, go for it and don’t worry about what the world says you “should” do.   Goldie Hawn, a major inspiration of mine, recently turned 70 and still wears dresses with spaghetti straps and plunging necklines and she still has long hair.  She feels good about herself and her body, so more power to her. 

        

Here are some new guidelines:

• Dress how you feel, not your age
• If you are comfortable in it, work it!
• Accentuate the positive (décolletage, great arms/legs…). If you’ve got it, flaunt it.
• All fashion trends are not for everyone {This is a whole other blogpost!}
• There is only one you - so just Do You!